Summer are great for visits. I am lucky all 5 grandkids live within a days drive so each one spends a 4-5 days with us. During that time we only watch the TV, play the games, do the activities that child wants. It is a fantastic opportunity to see them without parents or siblings and really builds our relationships.
I usually start when the child is 5 or 6, depending on the ability to stay overnight alone. Between grades 6 and 7, we take them on a trip in the USA. Between grades 7 and 8, we go to Europe, destination of their choosing! After that they are busy with friends, but we have great memories. This is not a plan for everyone, but there are other ways.
Even taking each child for a 1/2 day during a family visit can provide quality time if you focus on what the child likes and wants to do. That is how we get to know them! A trip together to the library or a playground and then lunch is all that is needed. Take lots of pictures and send copies to the child.
Getting away overnight is a real treat and does not need to involve long distances. A play or performance or sporting match in the next big city is enough. Stay in a budget motel with a pool.
Children love to hear from you directly even if all the plans are made with the parents long ahead of time. Send an invitation letter with the details of the trip so you can all get excited! Afterward send pictures with a personal note telling what a good time you had.
Her are the boys exploring new playgrounds in the Chicago area!
I usually start when the child is 5 or 6, depending on the ability to stay overnight alone. Between grades 6 and 7, we take them on a trip in the USA. Between grades 7 and 8, we go to Europe, destination of their choosing! After that they are busy with friends, but we have great memories. This is not a plan for everyone, but there are other ways.
Even taking each child for a 1/2 day during a family visit can provide quality time if you focus on what the child likes and wants to do. That is how we get to know them! A trip together to the library or a playground and then lunch is all that is needed. Take lots of pictures and send copies to the child.Getting away overnight is a real treat and does not need to involve long distances. A play or performance or sporting match in the next big city is enough. Stay in a budget motel with a pool.
Children love to hear from you directly even if all the plans are made with the parents long ahead of time. Send an invitation letter with the details of the trip so you can all get excited! Afterward send pictures with a personal note telling what a good time you had.
Her are the boys exploring new playgrounds in the Chicago area!
